Anonymous asked: do you think it would be weird for a senior or junior guy to date a sophomore girl?
Anonymous asked: i really like this one guy in one of my classes, but so does almost every other girl. we have assigned seats so he sits next to me and the sweetest guy. he always makes me laugh and wejoke around an such but idk i just really like and idk how i can get him to talk to more and outside of class
Well if you guys have good conversations in class or talk, maybe you should just flat out say “hey you should text me” honestly, it’ll be a punch in the stomach if he rejects you but I would much rather know he wasn’t interested than spend my time waiting if he ever was. And if he DOES text you, then you can just talkk. Or even message him on Facebook first and ask him about the hw or something and just have small talk first. You never know unless you try :)
Anonymous asked: I have a crush on one of my brother's friends but I don't know how to get him to notice me and think of me in the same way I think of him instead of just thinking of me as his friends little sister...
Well if that were my case, I would tell my brother I think his friends cute. If you don’t have that relationship with your brother, then you could possibly just message him on Facebook or something, egh that’s such a hard scenario. Just try and step out a bit and try telling your brother you’re into him! Who knows, that could help. :)
Anonymous asked: So I dated a boy from the middle of my freshman year, to almost the end of my senior year, we broke up because he cheated on me, a few times. we still try to be friends though, but, every so often we hooked up and then i end up being mad at myself for doing it because we're supposed to be, broken up. but, i haven't talked to him for a year now, and i miss him a lot because he moved, but he still tries to get a hold of me. i don't know if i should respond to him or not. i mean i miss him as (cnt)
(cnt) as a friend but then I know if we get close again we’ll end up doing more than friendly things, and i don’t know, with him being my first and only boyfriend, for 3 years really if that’s good for my emotional being. He knows how to get to me, and I don’t know if I want him that close again. But i’d hate to NEVER talk to him again.
Okay first off he cheated on you. You should know right then and there that once a cheater always a cheater. I think you two should set a boundary between actually having an item and just being good friends. I have ex’s I’m still good friend with, and just because we talk doesn’t mean we’re going to date again. My advice is just to start small. Talk to him, ask about eachother, maybe go out and get coffee or something or just talk on the phone, and see where that leads out to. Maybe cut the conversation over the phone short and be like “it was really great talking to you!” that right there just signifies you’re good friends still and you care. Keep me updated :)
Anonymous asked: I've been in love with my best friends older brother for 4 years now and he's always teased me and play fought with me all the time and flirted but the thing is I no longer talk to him he graduated recently and he got his younger girlfriend pregnant.He cut off all ties with his family and I never got to tell him how I feel. I just wanted him to know and now here i am heartbroken my senior year and I have no idea on how to get over him. nothing works and its even worse because he is my first love
This is probably the hardest ask i’ll ever get because honestly, at this point, it’s almost a no-win situation.
What I would do actually is before he actually STARTS this family, or even gets married, you should just tell him he is a very important person to you. I mean 4 years of being close, I’m pretty sure he’d understand. If things ever and do fall a little bit with his girlfriend, you need to let him know you always had a special place for him in your heart. Don’t say “OMFG I LUV U SO MUCH”, but more of like, just letting him know he’s a really special person to you, and if the time is ever right, if he ever breaks up with his girlfriend or whatever, you should tell him. This is one of the reasons I go with the whole “you’ll never know unless you try” quote, because in all honesty as of now you wouldn’t want to break the relationship or even hurt your friendship. Keep me updated xo
Anonymous asked: So I had a crush on this guy who was in 8th grade while I was in 7th. We used to webcam a lot & talk to each other, then one day my sister came home & she hates it when I webcam with people, so I exited our chat. He kept trying to call me & stuff, but I just kept exiting it. Then all of the sudden, he deleted his FB & we never spoke to each other until today in Spanish class (I'm a freshie and he's a soph) & he basically hinted that he wanted to take me to homecoming. I dunno what to do now
All these asks are so relevant to my life omfg.
Okay well it seems honestly like there were some unsaid things and whatnot. He probably got really upset when you exited out of the webcam and ignored his calls, I would be aswell! Now the fact that a couple years later you started conversating again is compleeetely normal. I talk to many boys from my past, some more flirtatious, some not. And who knows, maybe he thinks you’re like 249x more attractive then a few years back, and i honestly wouldn’t blame the boy for hinting to take you to homecoming :) I didn’t go to homecoming with anyone Freshman year and to be honest, I regret it. A couple guys wanted to go with me but I turned them all down. And going to homecoming with a boy doesn’t mean you’re going to get married, it just means you’re going to get dressed up, go out to dinner and dance with a boy, then you could possibly develop feelings, you might not. You won’t know unless you take a chance! :) xo
Anonymous asked: i wish i had a boyfriend, or even a boy friend, but when it comes to talking to guys i get really shy and have no idea what to say... i tell myself that i'm actually going to start talking to them, but when it comes down to actually going up and talking to them i just don't/can't... idk what to do to break my shyness... :/
Aww love that’s me right there. Alot of times I’m really outgoing but then again I get all asjglajjsldkj when it comes to serious flirting. i know alot of guys that think being shy is really cute, because they’re a little more mysterious in a sense, and in reality, when you really think about it, is having a ‘boyfriend’ going to be so amazing as it looks? I mean sure all the kissing and such but if you just take small steps like maybe texting first, or over facebook, and just be flat out with a guy and say “I’m actually really shyy” i know a lot of guys would probably find that really cute :) xo
Anonymous asked: Okay so me and my best friend like this guy... that's in a relationship with our other best friend... oh and our other best friend used to be in love with him... we talked to him for 4 hours last night and then we called him, idk I know it's wrong but we can't really help it??
Okay well I’ve actually been in your situation before.
Honestly, the NUMBER ONE rule I will go by now, is to always, and I mean always, put friends before boys. If this boy is in a relationship already, the best thing would probably not to come between it, let alone your own friend’s relationship. And you and your other best friend like the SAME guy, so that again right there has bad news written all over it.
My advice would be to just stay friends with this guy. He has a girlfriend, and obviously you wouldn’t want to lose friends because of a guy :) xo